I notice teeth. Whether people have them, need them, should get them fixed or need a toothbrush. I notice teeth.
Tuesday at the bar while I was working a new set of teeth walked in. And I mean a new set of teeth, fresh from the carving station and they were attached to one of my regulars. Now, he hasn’t been in on my shift for a few weeks but I know he did NOT have that set of choppers last time I saw him. They were white and shiny, brand spanking new, I don’t even think they’d seen a glass of Efferdent yet.
I’m never sure what to say in this situation. Do you act like you don’t notice them? Do you say “nice teeth”? “I like the teeth.” Where’d you get them”? Or, do you say nothing and just stare? Well, I chose none of the above. I said “Hi, good to see you, you’re looking good.” Honestly, this guy hasn’t looked good since he was a junior in high school in 1977 and even then it may have been iffy. But I was at a loss for the right words so I improvised, very poorly. Plus, I could not stop looking at him.
My compliment and my staring apparently appealed to him as he was grinning like the chubby kid at an all day buffet. You would think I would have stopped staring at that point, nope, not one bit. There is something definitely wrong with me. I should probably mention at this point it was just his top teeth that were new, his bottom ones were still MIA. I did not care, I couldn’t get over how different he looked, and by different I mean nice looking…..in a bad boy, used leather, rode hard, lots older than me sort of way.
Yeah, I know, I’m crazy, he still didn’t have his bottom teeth!!! The more I stared and saw his laugh lines and his smile lines around his mouth that was no longer sucked into his head, the more I was really attracted to this guy. I need to mention again that he still didn’t have any bottom teeth!! I even caught myself flirting with him. Now, I really should reiterate that I flirt with most everyone when I bartend, it’s part of the gig but I think I was really going out of my way on this one. I kept reigning myself in to just talk about what he’s been up to since I’ve seen him last because it had been so long. At one point I even had to go and sit across the bar just so I would stop rambling.
He stayed for three drinks and he never stays for three drinks!! I forced myself to stay away from him so I would stop staring, it was obvious he had noticed me noticing him. I’m sure he just thought it was amusing as there’s no way he was attracted to me. Honestly, I’m not really attracted to him either, it was just one of those days and one of those things that caught me off guard and messed with my senses. What a fiasco. He finally left, grinning from ear to ear all the way to the door. Things were so bad I even checked the rest of him out on his way out.
I shared this story with one of the other bartenders and she said “oh, he used to be very good looking”. Great, just great. I hope next week he doesn’t come in with new bottom teeth, if that happens I cannot be held responsible for my actions.